My name is Reena and I am 27yrs old. I had an arranged marriage 5yrs ago to Dinesh who is 43yrs old. I know you all must be wondering about our large age gap but at that time he was the best option my parents found.
He also paid a large amount of money to my parents asking for my hand in marriage. He works in some big company in sales and marketing and makes good money to provide us a comfortable life.
Dinesh was the first man to take my virginity on our first night together. My knowledge of sex was zero till my first night due to my conservative upbringing.
To describe myself I am an average woman about 5-7” in height with a figure of 32C-26-30 weighing 110lbs. While Dinesh was from a very rich background and moving into such a luxurious life in the big city was very new and thrilling to me.
His parents lived in a different city, so I was all here by myself in a big house. Till I moved in here, I never knew something called cable TV even existed.
Every day I came across something new. There was so much beyond the one and only national TV channel that I grew up watching. There were servants to do all the work so all I had to do was take care of myself and pass time with my best friend…The TV.
The initial few months after marriage he took me out every weekend to the big glamorous shopping malls. This was my first time even seeing a real city and it excited me to no end.
I was totally wowed by the big buildings and glowing billboards. He pushed me to try out western clothes. Though I was reluctant, I quickly liked them and immediately switched permanently to wearing only them.
Now my traditional saree was only kept for family functions or when we had relatives visiting. Almost every weekend we had dinners in restaurants.
Dinesh introduced me to drinking as he himself was a heavy drinker. I was fascinated learning new things but also had heard many negative things about drinking.
Then he got busy with his job and our weekend outings became bi-annual and eventually annual. Anyway I made friends with the women in my neighborhood and learnt a lot more from them about city life.
Mala who was one of my neighbors became my closest friend and from her I learnt about what married life really should be like. This is when I also found out that the fun filled married life I thought I was living was actually nothing… just empty…
Dinesh had sex with me on that first night when he took my virginity and then twice more on our two-week long honeymoon which followed right after. Despite the first time pain I was really enjoying the sex.
He didn’t want to have kids till much later in life so he put me on the pill. Life went on and over time I learnt more about so many things that happen in the bedroom.
When I compared it to mine, I was shocked none of it existed. I used to be under the impression that my sex life with Dinesh was rocking but was totally devastated when I found out what real sex meant.
We used to have sex barely a few times in a year and that was it. I thought this was good enough but was shocked when I learnt from Mala that she had sex with her hubby average four-five times a week minimum.